Everyone is lovin’ them some Britney Spears gossip today. She’s the top search term on Technorati, a search on Google News has over 5700 results for her, and tonight’s local news broadcasts led off (it is sweeps month, after all) with breathless accounts of her latest misadventure. Her official website is offline with the promise of a new one to come soon, and to the casual observer, it appears as though she’s another spoiled child star self-destructing in public and sinking into the muck of substance abuse.

Lots of people are having some big fun at her expense. Frankly, if I were faced with the publicity of being Britney, I’d be tempted to sink into a bottle and a bunch of destructive choices, too. Disclaimer: I’m not a doctor and although I studied psychology as my major in college I abandoned it along with the hope of a degree over 25 years ago. Even so, this latest series of Britney reports feels much deeper and more serious to me than just a spoiled pop star out to stir up some publicity for herself. In particular, her repeat impulsive and usually destructive acts jump out at me and practically scream for someone to step up and get this girl some quality psychiatric evaluations.
Wikipedia’s bio chronicles the last three years of her missteps in public quite well. Beginning in 2004 with 55-hour marriage to her childhood friend and ending with the head-shaving incident, it reads like a road map for someone struggling with something much larger than possible alcohol addiction.
If I were to describe Brittney’s behavior this way, would it fit?
…often has unstable relationships, low self-esteem, and problems with impulsive behavior, all of which begin by early adulthood
A common feature of this disorder is fear of being abandoned, even if the threat of being abandoned is not real. This fear may lead to frantic attempts to hold on to those around you and may cause you to become too dependent on others. Sometimes you may react to the fear of being abandoned by rejecting others first before they can reject you. This erratic behavior can lead to stormy relationships in every area of your life.
Or this:
At least five of these symptoms must exist:
- Make frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
- Have a pattern of difficult relationships caused by alternating between extremes of intense admiration and hatred of others.
- Have an unstable self-image or be unsure of his or her own identity.
- Act impulsively in ways that are self-damaging, such as extravagant spending, frequent and unprotected sex with many partners, substance abuse, binge eating, or reckless driving.
- Have recurring suicidal thoughts, make repeated suicide attempts, or cause self-injury through mutilation, such as cutting or burning himself or herself.
- Have frequent emotional overreactions or intense mood swings, including feeling depressed, irritable, or anxious. These mood swings usually only last a few hours at a time; rarely, they may last than a day or two.
- Have long-term feelings of emptiness.
- Have inappropriate, fierce anger or problems controlling anger. The person may often display temper tantrums or get into physical fights.
- Have temporary episodes of feeling suspicious of others without reason (paranoia) or losing a sense of reality.
This list and the paragraph above it are WebMD’s description of borderline personality disorder symptoms. I am NOT saying this is the problem, but still…there are some eerie similarities.
Closer to home for me are the list of bipolar disorder symptoms. During my first marriage I saw a therapist for several years, and through that, came to understand that it is extremely likely that my paternal grandmother had bipolar disorder. I can remember with far too much clarity what it was like to be around her when she was one of the extremes — the highs and lows would leave anyone within 5 miles of her breathless.
Before everyone dumps on Britney, maybe we should have some compassion for her and consider the possibility that she really is dealing with something far more difficult than spoiled-child syndrome. Alcohol and drug abuse can exacerbate symptoms of psychological disorders and magnify them. My gut tells me there’s more here than meets the eye, and I’m afraid for her (and her children) if she doesn’t stop and get some help. Maybe a better bandwidth use would be a chorus of concern rather than ridicule.
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