In Memory of Larry LaMotte: Be Safe at the Beach

Posted by Karoli in Tribute June 8th, 2007

Last year I told you about my friend Sandee and the tragic drowning of her husband, CNN Reporter Larry LaMotte. I asked Sandee if she would like to post a message directly to the blog in tribute to Larry. The following is what she asked me to post. Today is a difficult day for her. Despite the passage of time, some anniversaries never become less painful. I know that if even one of you is more careful and takes her story into account, she will feel a little less pain. I love you Sandee, and miss Larry, too.

Sandee’s Message:

sandee and larry imageJune 8, 2007. Four years ago today a rip current took my husband’s life.

It plays in my head like a movie. It was about 6 pm Florida time. I had just left Larry and the kids playing on a boogie board in the waves at the shoreline, walked the 100 yards from the beach and was washing lettuce at the sink when the kids burst in the front door of the cottage.

“Mommy, Mommy! Ryan couldn’t get his boogie board to come forward and Daddy went in to help and now Daddy’s gone!”

By the time I got to the beach Larry was dead. Floating face down in the waves. It took 20 agonizing minutes and the life of another before Larry’s body was rescued. Yes, another father, Ken Brindley, also lost his life to the rip current trying to help Larry. He left behind a loving wife and two small children. Somehow that is the hardest thing for me to face.

Here’s the catch: this wasn’t a freak accident. Six more people died that day in the rip currents along the Florida panhandle. Most of them drowned before Larry, the kids, and I set foot on the beach that day.

Why We Didn’t Know

Why didn’t we know there was danger? We were ignorant of rip currents. We lived inland, as most beach vacationers do, and our experience with water was the occasional boat on the lake or dip in the neighborhood swimming pool.

One of the women who drowned in Destin that day was actually a pool lifeguard. Rip currents are different, and if you don’t know how to face them, you can be an Olympic swimmer and still die battling the current.

There were no warnings. Contrary to what Walton County officials said at the time (this occurred at Grayton Beach, Florida, in Walton County, voted one of the most beautiful beaches in the nation), there were no bullhorns, no sheriff deputies pulling people out of the water — in fact the one deputy on the scene at 4 pm calmly drove past the crowd of bodies in the water and off the beach. There was a red flag, but the warning was obscure: “Red means there could be dangerous currents in the water.” No indication that currents occur at the shoreline and can suck you out to the depths within seconds. We looked across the crowds and decided the warnings were for the silly surfers riding those distant waves.

There were no lifeguards either. There are now, after an ABC 20/20 story by investigative reporter Brian Ross ran in July of 2005. Finally, an embarrassed Walton County decided to put lifeguards on five of their many beaches. Only five, but it’s a start. Last year lifeguard director Gary Wise and his small crew rescued 21, assisted over 400, and educated over 50,000 on the dangers of rip currents.

But there have been more deaths. Two more drowned this year near Grayton Beach (which still doesn’t have a lifeguard, but that’s another story). And here is the moral of my story:

Don’t swim where there are no lifeguards. It’s not the sharks that will get you, it’s the currents. Consider these facts from the U.S. Lifeguard Association:

  • Rip currents kill over 100 people a year — a toll that puts them ahead of lightning (66) and hurricanes (17). Rip currents can occur at any surf beach with breaking waves, including the Great Lakes.
  • More than 80 percent of all lifesaving rescues reported each year by the U.S. Lifesaving Association are a result of people caught in rip currents.
  • USLA statistics indicate that the chance of death by drowning at a beach protected by lifeguards is 1 in 18 million.

Next, educate yourselves. Teach your children too. In most cases, simple actions such as not panicking, not fighting the current and swimming parallel to the beach would have enabled the victims to save themselves. In fact, that’s exactly how an educated bystander helped my Ryan get safely out of the water. But by then Larry was far out in the waves, and he did not know the USLA’s basics of rip current survival:

  • Remain calm to conserve energy and think clearly.
  • Never fight against the current.
  • Think of it like a treadmill that cannot be turned off, which you need to step to the side of.
  • Swim out of the current in a direction following the shoreline. When out of the current, swim at an angle–away from the current–towards shore.
  • If you are unable to swim out of the rip current, float or calmly tread water. When out of the current, swim towards shore.
  • If you are still unable to reach shore, draw attention to yourself by waving your arm and yelling for help.

rip current graphic.

The USLA also stresses that if you see someone in a rip current, don’t go in after them, because you (like Ken Brindley) could become a victim too. Instead:

  • Get help from a lifeguard.
  • If a lifeguard is not available, have someone call 9-1-1.
  • Throw the rip current victim something that floats–a lifejacket, a cooler, an inflatable ball.
  • Yell instructions on how to escape.
  • Remember, many people drown while trying to save someone else from a rip current.

Please, share this with everyone you know. Educate everyone about how to survive a rip, but more than that, seek out lifeguards. Don’t swim without them, and if your favorite vacation spot doesn’t provide them, demand they do. It’s your life on the line, and it’s their responsibility to protect it.

larry and kids.

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    Thank you Sandee. Sharing your pain and your eloquence leaves us with a lasting message -- and has, I'm sure, already saved lives.

    Thank you,

    Wendy
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    Sandee,

    I do not know if you remember me, but we spoke on the phone once immediately after you family's tragic loss. I was also on "Good Morning America" with you the following week. I just wanted you to know that we, here in the United States Lifesaving Association Southeast Region, have never stopped fighting to stop the useless and preventable drownings that occur in rip currents.

    To this day, I can never get through telling the story of your husband's passing without getting emotional. Two weeks ago I was asked to do another interview with ABC News for GMA again. Unfortunately, it was because of another rip current drowning on a beach without surf-trained lifeguards. And as I prepared for the interview, and read the news accounts of this drowning, I realized that the similarities were uncanny to the events that transpired almost four years ago to the day with Larry.

    A father swimming into a rip current to save his 13-year-old son. The boy is rescued, but the father dies in the process.

    And as irony would have it, the cameraman and the interviewer for the ABC News crew both knew Larry personally.

    I don't know if you know this or not, but your husband's drowning has had a tremendous positive impact on beach safety in our region. It is because of the national news his death garnered that we have been able successfully help implement ocean rescue programs in South Walton County, Destin, Okaloosa County, and help upgrade the service provided in Pensacola Beach. Hundreds of people have been saved at these beaches since 2003.

    But as you know, there is always work to do. Since May 3rd, we have had 15 ocean drowning in our region mostly due to rip currents. One yesterday near Gulf Shores, Alabama, and one the day before in Destin, Florida. It never ends, and the interviews keep coming. But Larry LaMotte has not been forgotten, and his life continues to impact people that have never had the pleasure of meeting him. Like me.

    Jim McCrady
    Fort Lauderdale Ocean Rescue Lieutenant
    President United States Lifesaving Association Southeast Region
    Work: (954)828-4577 Cell: (954)804-1599
    FAX: (954)467-0238
    Work E-mail: JMcCrady@fortlauderdale.gov
    Home E-mail: JMcCrady5@comcast.net
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    Sandee, I am the Beach Safety Division Chief for the Destin Fire Control District. On the day of your husbands tragic death I was working as a lifeguard for the City of Fort Lauderdale. After several conversations with Jim McCrady I decided to get involved. We indeed did have another fatality almost four years to the day and, while tragic, so much has improved. Since our inception we have had only two drowning deaths. We have documented over 300 rescues / lives saved and made over 2,000 assits. This week we began our very first Jr. Lifeguard program that is aimed to educate both our local and visiting youth about the dangers of the Gulf and what the job duties are of our lifeguards. Our community continues to work hard to prevent any further drownings. So as long as our sand is white and the Gulf waters green, Larry Lamotte will never be forgotten on our beach.

    Joseph H. D'Agostino
    Destin Fire Control District
    Beach Safety Division Chief
    848 Airport Road
    Destin FL 32541
    Business: (850)-837-8413
    Fax: (850)-837-6715
    Cell:(850)-685-0408
    destinbeachsafety@yahoo.com
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    Hello,
    I am Melanie Brindley, widow of Ken Brindley, the man who tried to save Larry on that tragic day. I was not at the beach at the time of the drownings and I am not sure if I could have stopped my husband from going in to help. However, we did obey the red flags that day and kept our family out of the water all day. I believe if Ken had known how to swim out of a current perhaps he would not have drown.

    Since that summer, my children, now 7 and 10, and I have returned to beaches and we are constantly aware of the flag system. I have taught my children about the dangers of rip currents and how to escape. Whenever asked about my husband's death, I always follow with a rip current safety speech. While it doens't ease my pain, it helps to see the shocked look on someone's face and hopefully they will be more aware of the dangers of the water when they vacation on a beach one day. I wish to spare the pain of someone in a hospital waiting room. Please read the warnings, obey the signs, follow your instincts even on the yellow flag days it can be too rough and change in a minute....teach your children and swim at beaches with life guards.

    In His Hands,
    Melanie Brindley, July 6, 2007
    4600 Bay Hill Drive
    Conway AR 72034
 

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