Well, it wasn’t as bad as I imagined it could be, though there were a few times where I imagined myself strangling Katie Couric for her leeeaaaading questions and sort of sneery attitude. Some of her classics:
“Did you ever think it was just the terrible twos?”
(Mom: Um, yeah, I suppose, but it was worse.)
(Me: Katie, you ignorant slut. Don’t you think a parent understands the difference between the terrible twos and behavior out of control?)
“Did you ever say to yourself, wow, that’s a lot of pills to be giving a little girl…”
(Mom: I did what the doctor told me.)
(Me: I’m sure, Katie, that she has asked herself that question over and over and over again)
Rebecca Riley’s case is tragic, extreme and a terrible case to try to make law out of. The axiom goes that bad cases make bad law, and Rebecca Riley’s is no exception. The parents were ignorant, no one really took the time to understand the medications prescribed and giving to this child, and she was inadequately monitored. I disagree with the choice to prosecute these parents for murder — they’re essentially being prosecuted for being stupid. With that said…here are some of the mistakes that I see. I’m listing them not because I want to pile on this mom or the prescribing doctor or anyone else, but because if someone comes by this blog with questions about what they should do as a parent when their child has been prescribed some pretty strong meds, I’d like to think there’s a resource here to help them. So here goes:
- The Diagnosis: It wasn’t altogether unreasonable for the doctor to consider a diagnosis of bipolar disorder, given the family history of depression and siblings diagnosed. They went to a psychiatrist for an evaluation and out of that, meds were recommended.
- The Meds: Depakote, Clonidine, Ritalin is a pretty hefty combo of meds. Back when Sticks was diagnosed, it was common for Clonidine to be prescribed alongside Ritalin to help wth the sleep issues that sometimes come from hyperactivity. However, I’d read enough about the dangers of Clonidine to not want it for Sticks — we chose to deal differently with the sleep issues.
I know from situations with friends that Depakote has to be monitored carefully to make sure toxic levels don’t accumulate in the blood stream. This is not the responsiblity of the parents; it’s the responsibility of the prescriber. I didn’t hear anything in tonight’s report that says she was being monitored.
Ritalin seems to be the meekest of the three, and certainly the least lethal.
- The Price of Ignorance: Even if all of these meds were monitored and properly dosed, the real issue is the mother’s cavalier attitude about when to medicate and how much to give, which is more a function of ignorance than malevolence. So if you’re one of those people that happens by this blog looking for info about these issues, don’t get it here. Take the time to educate yourself. Ask questions of your doctor, your pharmacist, and others who may be coping with similar issues. Don’t accept the diagnosis casually offered. Request a second opinion and approach the world of meds conservatively, because these ARE powerful medications, which shouldn’t be given without absolute confidence and certainty. Do your homework. Go to WebMD or search Google, or whatever resource you use for health information. Read the inserts that come with the medication. Log your child’s behavior, any side effects and talk to the doctor about anything that concerns you.
Rebecca Riley’s death was a tragedy, which I think is compounded by the prosecution of her parents. At the same time, it’s definitely the extreme, as were the other cases that Katie used to make her point tonight. There was not a particularly accurate balance — no interviews with parents of children who were diagnosed, carefully medicated with the least amount of medication approved for children. Instead she chose to make it sound like pediatric bipolar disorder is overdiagnosed and overmedicated, a la Rebecca Riley. While I’m sure there are some misdiagnoses made, I’m grateful that the doctors are coming to a greater understanding of bipolar disorder in children, because it’s possible that diagnosing them early means they might have a smoother transition through their teenage and young adult years. It’s a very difficult disorder to manage and one that is painful for all involved…I wish they’d shown some of that on 60 minutes alongside Rebecca Riley’s extremes.
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